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  • How to Have A Tighter Penetration Experience During Solo and Partnered Play

    There are a great many reasons as to why you may desire a tighter penetration experience during your solo or partnered play, and even more reasons as to why you may feel your experience has been altered over time. Our bodies are constantly changing and life experiences play a big part in that. Whether it’s medication based, age, elasticity after childbirth, or a variety of other challenges - our pleasure is still our right. Just as our bodies change, so must our techniques and styles to accommodate them. A tighter or ‘filling’ sensation for partners can lead to a heightened pleasure experience and when that goes away it can leave us feeling discouraged and unfulfilled in our sex lives. Whatever the reason - there are ways to assist with a tighter penetration experience during both solo and partnered play no matter what stage of the experience you may be in. It’s important to also understand that there is no such thing as a permanently ‘loose’ vagina. The vagina is elastic and meant to stretch, but after childbirth and aging it can lose some of that elasticity. There are ways to get this back! It’s a myth that frequency of sex permanently alters the vagina and even if you favor larger toys it’s quite easy to obtain that elasticity once more. Reasons You May Be Experiencing Challenges In order to fully understand the benefit of using toys for a tighter penetration experience, it helps to first understand some of the challenges we face and why you may be experiencing a lack of pleasure. Weakening of Pelvic Floor Muscles When pelvic floor muscles lose their strength it can lead to a loss of elasticity. This can result in a lessened sexual experience for the one penetrating as well as the one being penetrated. This can also lead to prolapsing and a lack of urinary control. This can happen after childbirth, if you are a smoker, or a variety of other reasons. It’s important to consult your doctor if you are concerned over this change and to also start kegel exercises. Kegel exercises can be done with the assistance of a toy, or without one. The same muscles that would be utilized to stop the flow of urine are the ones you would use to tighten and loosen routinely to work out these pelvic floor muscles. Aging and Childbirth During aging, there is a loss of estrogen which can result in a change internally for your vagina. Your vaginal tissue will become thinner, drier, and less flexible. During childbirth, your vaginal muscles stretch and also cause an internal change. If you are uncomfortable with these changes or find a lessened sexual experience, you are not alone and that’s where kegel exercises, speaking with your medical team, and toys can help! There are some cases where surgery is necessary to ensure your body is healing the way it needs to, especially in the case of prolapsing (which can happen after childbirth and statistically affects 30-40% of women to some degree). Bring In The Toys! If penetration does not cause you pain or discomfort, there are toys that can be used to create a tighter penetration experience while you are utilizing your kegel exercises. Your pleasure is your right, and settling for a less than pleasant experience in the bedroom or during your solo play is not something you have to do. Take your pleasure into your own hands and delight in the results as the pleasure you knew and loved is returned to both yourself, and your partnered play. Introducing: The MateFix The revolutionary MateFix toy is made from body safe silicone, is water resistant, remote controlled and rechargeable. It has been specifically designed to fit snugly within your vagina and the unique shape allows for a penis to penetrate with ease, fitting against the toy to provide an incredibly filling experience. During this penetration, it provides the wearer with the feeling of immense fullness and the penetrator with a tighter experience. The MateFix also provides variable vibrations in 3 erotic zones; clitoral, G-Spot and far deeper inside the vagina. The specifically shaped smaller bullet can be placed in the clitoral area or in reverse for anal pleasure. The MateFix doesn’t always have to be for partnered play, it can also be utilized with your favorite penetration toy during solo play for that fuller, deeper experience. When matched with pelvic floor exercises, the MateFix allows you to claim that pleasure immediately instead of waiting months or giving up on having the experience you enjoyed in the past. We Strive To Give You Your Pleasure Back The team at Perfect Dimensions understands that the pleasure experience changes over time and with a great many life alterations. But it’s important to understand that you can take this into your own hands and there are ways to assist when you are experiencing this. Again, whether it’s for your partnered play or solo play, the MateFix is here to assist in returning those sensations you may feel like you are missing. Both partners will feel a significant difference and the pleasure is unparalleled! Beyond the MateFix We are consciously working on creating new and innovative products that are meant to hold your hand through these experiences, give you immense pleasure, and light that fire back in the bedroom and your masturbation play. The MateFix is only the beginning! We have new products that will be released soon with your continued pleasure in mind. In the end, it’s important to be patient with yourself, compassionate with your body during these changes, and to understand there are ways to assist without having to give up the sex and masturbation sensations you know and love. We at Perfect Dimensions are here to help and provide quality products that will take your lovemaking to the next level and return these pleasures to both you, and your partner during sex and masturbation. Take your pleasure back!

  • Bringing sex toys into the bedroom

    Bringing toys into the bedroom with your partner can be an entirely new adventure, but it can also be a bit hard to bring up with them at first. There is a large stigma around using toys when you have a partner, many believing that if you are in a relationship there is no need for toys or you are unsatisfied with the pleasure you are receiving. That is simply far from true! Toys are not a replacement, they are an enhancer that can be a beautiful way to achieve a deeper connection with your partner and new sensations you had not otherwise enjoyed. They also help you better understand your body and the pleasure you can achieve. But how do you start the conversation and what are the benefits of bringing toys into the bedroom? Once you educate yourself further it can be quite easy to integrate sex toys and their amazing benefits for both yourself, and your partner! Starting the Conversation The most important part of introducing toys into the bedroom with your partner is the conversation. Ensure that you are prepared for any level of insecurities around toys to arise. They may believe you are saying you are not satisfied, or intimidated, or entirely against the idea at first. Make sure that you bring it up in a comfortable setting for both of you. Be sure to assure them that this is not about their performance in the bedroom and instead about bringing in some additional sensations that you both may truly enjoy. Listen to their reasoning and be understanding - there is a lot of stigma around bringing toys into the bedroom and it may take some conversation to break some of those down and come up with an answer that is right for you both. Do not get defensive or upset over the initial discussion - simply bringing up your interests and needs can be an excellent start when it comes to opening the door and welcoming sex toys into the bedroom! Start Small Start with something that you both can enjoy that isn’t a toy such as a new lubrication with warming or cooling properties - or new massage oils. These are not intimidating and an easy way to bring in a new sensation without having something that penetrates or vibrates! They are also considered a bit more ‘mainstream’ and have far less stigmas surrounding them. This can be an easy way to warm up to bringing in a new toy if there’s a lot of hesitation between you both. It shows that new sensations can be brought into the relationship and not replace any of the connections the two of you have together or change the pleasure that you both have found together. Benefits of Bringing In Sex Toys When you’re having the conversation with your partner and are ready to explore with sex toys it’s important to understand the benefits they can bring you both. It’s more than just pleasure, using toys can also be utilized to achieve a better connection with your partner. Inability to Orgasm or Difficulty Orgasming In some cases it’s impossible for a partner to orgasm or achieve pleasure without deep, rumbly vibration. Whether this is due to medication, aging, or otherwise - there are a great many reasons as to why some vibration can go a long way and assist with an orgasm. Acknowledge that it’s okay if you are someone who needs that extra stimulation. That’s why sex toys were made! If you are one of these people, bringing in a vibrating toy can help you achieve that orgasm with your partner where it may have been impossible to do so before. A Fuller Experience There may be a situation in which you don’t feel like penetration is as fulfilling or it’s not a tight enough experience for both partners. In this situation it’s important to know there is a product that does assist. The MateFix is meant to easily hold within the vagina and accommodate the penis, providing a thicker internal experience and a tighter overall grip for both partners. Beyond that, it does vibrate as well - a sensation that both partners can feel with ease and enjoy as they are having sex or during solo play. This is a toy that can also be used with other toys during penetration or solo play for either partner depending on the preference. There is no reason to accept an experience where you don’t feel like you are achieving the pleasure you’d like! Toys are here to work with you and your partner to get that experience back or take the existing pleasure to an entirely new level. In the end, it’s about the combined sensations and joy of both parties and not limiting that. Finding Your Voice When we use sex toys separately or with a partner it allows us to potentially explore new sensations we otherwise may not have been able to feel. When we do this it can help us find new feelings that we really like or want to integrate into the bedroom with our partners. Discovering these new pleasures will also help us advocate more for ourselves and our needs. If we have a better grasp on what we like and can better voice these needs to our partners in the bedroom so they can best be integrated for our pleasure! When we advocate for our own pleasure it’s an incredibly powerful experience. Happiness and Sleep Assistance On top of being able to achieve your wanted pleasure and new sensations, having orgasms releases oxytocin and serotonin, promoting the happiness hormones and also relaxing your body and your partner’s body for better sleep and stress relief! If you are not used to orgasming every time, using a toy in the bedroom can ensure this outcome and better prepare your body for that relaxation and happiness with your partner and with yourself. In the end it’s important to advocate for your pleasure and to understand that bringing toys into the bedroom is not a bad thing or a sign that you are not fulfilled. There are toys like the MateFix that are here to assist with fantastic couples play in the bedroom and amplifying sensations you already enjoy together! So grab a toy and start the conversation!

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